Just before I start, I need
to set the stage. Today’s sermon is not
set in a general “somewhere”; this one is situated in a particular place. So imagine with me the risen Christ, and some
of his disciples, sharing breakfast on the rocky beach near Tabgha, in
Galilee. In this place, Jesus had walked
and talked with the disciples and now the risen Christ and Simon Peter have
some one-on-one time, talking about Peter’s role in the future.
a sermon preached at Osoyoos United Church, April 26, 2026
It is so hard to come back,
when you have really messed something up.
Not just made a blooper-reel mistake, but made a choice that impacted
someone else’s life… or said things that have fractured a relationship… or
completely missed something that you really should have responded to, conveying
a lack of friendship or caring to someone else.
In today’s gospel reading,
Peter is in such a position relative to Jesus.
Peter, who had been so bold throughout their time together, had suddenly
turned timid in the final week of Jesus’ life.
Although I can’t for the life of me imagine what difference it would
have made to Jesus’ fate, all four gospels want us to know that three times
Peter had the opportunity to proclaim that he was a follower of Jesus; and
three times he lied, disowned Jesus, denied any knowledge of the man.
Knowing this failure of nerve,
let us hear once more the exchange at the beach of Tabgha between the Risen
Christ, and Peter:
15 When they had finished
breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more
than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said
to him, “Feed my lambs.” 16 A second time he said to him,
“Simon son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that
I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Tend my sheep.” 17 He
said to him the third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter felt
hurt because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to
him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him,
“Feed my sheep.
Is there perhaps a connection, between Peter denying Jesus
three times, and Christ repeating this question three times? Bible commentators
over the aeons answer a hearty “yes”: three denials need to be countered by
three affirmations. Christ forgives Peter,
Christ has something big for him to do, yet there is a sense that the wounded
relationship between them has not completely healed. Reconciliation is not easy. Recovering from faithless words or actions is
not easy. Forgive and forget is a lovely
saying, but does not often describe the human condition.
In a blog post, Pastor Steve Oliver points out a simple but
noteworthy thing in this scripture: in
their early days together it was Jesus who gave the disciple Simon a new name: Peter, which means, “the rock.” Simon Peter was his foundational guy, the
rock (Matthew 16:18) upon which the Church would be built. But in this beautiful post-resurrection
scene of Christ and his friends sharing breakfast on the beach, Christ does not
address him as Peter-the-Rock; he rolls it back, and calls him Simon,
Simon-the-fisherman. Maybe it’s just me,
but if I were Peter I think that hearing Christ abandon that new name, a name
expressing confidence in him, and going back to his old name, his “deadname”, might
well have stung more than being asked the same question three times.
There is in this encounter, another word swap. The first two times Jesus asks Peter, “do you
love me?” he uses the Aramaic equivalent of the word AGAPE to describe the kind
of love he is talking about, and Peter answers with a different word for love,
the Aramaic equivalent of PHILEO. As
described by Huffington Post contributor Gary Edmonds, agape, the love word Jesus
spoke, “is not based
on merit of the person loved, but [is] unconditional,…kind and generous. It
continues to give even when the other is unkind, unresponsive and unworthy. It
only desires good things for the other and is compassionate”. Agape is the selfless love of service, a
full-on sacrificial love offered for the benefit of another. The word that Peter uses in reply, however – Philéo –
is what we might call brotherly love, or friendship. There’s nothing wrong with phileo, we all need
friends, but what Peter is offering is way below what Christ was asking him
for.
So after two
times of asking if Peter will be self-giving and Peter saying he’ll be
fraternal, the third time, Christ
relents and uses the same word Peter had been using. It’s as if he realizes that
he’s not going to get agape out of Peter, so phileo will do. J.B. Phillips, in his New Testament translation,
follows this line of logic, with Jesus twice asking, “do you love me” and Peter
answering “yes, I am your friend”; the third time Jesus asks, “are you my
friend” and, according to Phillips, Peter is hurt, not because he’s been asked
the same question three times, but because Jesus let go of his hope that Peter
might be capable of that higher Christian love, agape.
We see here, that even in this foundational relationship,
which was such a force during the earthly ministry of Jesus, things can go
sour. Sour, but not beyond recovery.
Jesus did what Jesus always does – then, and now: he provides a path
forward. No, things weren’t like they
used to be. Christ didn’t call him Rocky anymore, and when asked to love
without reserve, Simon Peter could only muster friendship – but that didn’t end
his friendship with Jesus,. And while
Peter’s response to Christ may have been underwhelming in the moment, he did
become that rock on which the Church was built. This, to me, is what the
reconciling love of Jesus looks like: it owns the truth of what has gone
before, and in light of that truth, finds a path. Sometimes there is no safe
path forward, especially when there has been abuse, but there are so many other
times when factors like embarrassment and anger and resentment and ego and fatigue
block the gracious actions of the Holy Spirit, and if we can get past those
things, we needn’t remain stuck in the same place forever.
This ability to find a pivotal future for Simon Peter, is
traditionally known as “the restoration of Peter.” [this stone Church in
Galilee is named for it]. Here, Christ establishes with him a fresh start, the
kind of fresh start that many of us have relied on repeatedly in our family relationships,
the kind of repentance-based hope we turn to as the Church as we do the work of
reconciliation with First Nations peoples. Three
times Peter denied, three times he failed to grab hold of the invitation by
Jesus to love with all his heart, soul, mind and strength, yet Jesus would not
take no for an answer.
Consistently, repeatedly, in their time spent together at
Galilee, Jesus focused the attention of the disciples on those in their midst
who were most vulnerable: those who were held captive by harmful social
conventions, by lifelong infirmity, or by unjust financial structures, and Jesus
implored his followers to be people of God’s liberating love. Often, Jesus had to repeat himself as the
disciples – especially as portrayed in Mark’s gospel – are not the brightest
bulbs in the package, but these were the people he had chosen to bring healing
and wholeness to those in need.
In this, Jesus aligns himself and his disciples with the
long-standing religious tradition of portraying spiritual leaders – and, at
times, God – as shepherds who would keep the vulnerable little lambs out of
harm’s way. He’s naming a reality in
his world and ours, that the forces of inequality intentionally create very
precarious conditions in some people’s lives, people whose lives are already
shaky. Like sheep who need a shepherd to make sure they don’t tumble down a
cliff, or to protect them from wolves, Jesus recognizes that there are
particularly vulnerable ones in this world who need to be noticed and loved and
attended to. While the 21st
chapter of John was talking only about people, in the industrialized world we
live in, I think Christ would include the soil, the water, the atmosphere, endangered
plants and creatures, in the list of those at peril because of human
greed. And in relationship to these
vulnerable ones, Christ says to Simon Peter, “Feed my lambs, Shepherd my sheep,
feed my sheep.” Love the vulnerable ones. Guard them, help them find safety, establish
justice, don’t completely ruin this planet, remember that every person and, in
fact, every living being is beloved in the eyes of the Creator.
When we think back to the social status of a shepherd in the
days of Jesus, we may remember just how low a position it was. Some ancient sources suggest that the
testimony of a shepherd was not allowable in court, so low was the common
opinion of them, and even more than that: in the economy of the day, the value
of a sheep was probably higher than the value of a shepherd. So when Christ commands Simon Peter to be a
shepherd to the sheep, this is not a high-status proposition; it was a call to service. Just as God, the good shepherd, was said to
be present even in the valley of the shadow of death, even when we are surrounded
by enemies, so Peter and those following after him in Christ’s name were to put
themselves on the line. And no, not just
pastors or priests or ministers, though Peter is regarded as the first Pope;
this is what Christ expects of all who claim to be disciples, all
communities of faith bearing his name, all who have heard in the brave,
reconciling words of Jesus the distinctive ring of truth. Christ has a special affinity for all who
are imperiled, and those of us who bear his light in the world are called to
deep, non-judgmental service: practical, personal, and yes, even
political.
As we gather this morning, as disciples of Christ Jesus, we imagine the relationship between Jesus Christ and Simon Peter, and its rhythm from reliability, to doubt, to reconciliation and new possibility; and as we do so, we go deep in our own experience: our places of brokenness, our gratitude for healing, the places where we have work to do. We see in this primary relationship between Jesus and his right-hand man, Peter, that even when we miss the mark there is the opportunity to be restored. At this time when we seek new horizons in the name of Jesus, may all this be so, in the unfolding of your lives, and our life together. Amen.
References cited:
Edmonds, Gary. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/agape-and-phileo-love-we-need-both_b_58a1e5d6e4b0cd37efcfeb23
Jarrett, Ed. https://www.christianity.com/wiki/jesus-christ/what-did-jesus-mean-when-he-said-take-care-of-my-sheep.html
Oliver, Steve. https://holyjoys.org/restoring-the-fallen-peters-restoration-john-211-19/
Phillips, JB. The New
Testament in Modern English. © 1958.